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Jesus Christ, victims of abuse normalize their situation. That doesn't make them worthless.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Somewhat Confident
I remember having absolutely no idea how to play it.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
Lol what. The post was clearly about the husband and nanny relationship and being unfaithful to OP. Cheating on a spouse doesn’t start with sex, it starts with exactly what OPs husband is doing. Forming a relationship that isn’t acceptable for the situation.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty	Confident
Isn’t 2038 going to be another “y2k” problem does 32-bit systems?	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
What she needs is to be kicked to the curb. Stop showing sympathy to abusers.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
Yes this is really important and maybe explains a lots. I’m so sorry you’re all going through this. Your husbands outlook and behaviour is very bizarre and worrying.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Loyalty	Confident
The claim she has this phony allergy is in fact, an issue about race and xenophobia. You cannot extricate the false claims of MSG "insensitivity" or "allergy" from its xenophobia, ignorance, and racism. Informed people have known this for decades. Scientists have consistently shown that the glutamate in monosodium glutamate is not chemically any different than the same glutamate in tomatoes, cheese, meat, and that which our own bodies produce.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality	Confident
I just meant like start at the back and work your way to the relevant starting point, instead of starting at the beginning as if it's a novel that needs context.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
Reach out for help man. It’s really hard to walk this path alone. You may feel like you are burdening them, but you’re not. And if there’s no one in your life like that, I’d consider joining AA. This is really something that can take your whole life away. You’re not weak for having this problem, so many brilliant people face this demon. Finding help in others is a sign of strength my friend. I wish nothing but luck on you.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
well now I don't know which of the two of you to believe	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
I’ve been studying for the last couple days, I know the content but I wasn’t sure about my nerves the day of the exam. Now I’m not worrying, just worried I’ll get caught lol	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
INFO - >I asked my server where she went and she said that she was using the restroom. I was suspicious, so I decided to check the restroom. You haven't mentioned your gender. If you are a male then i wouldn't be comfortable with you peeking into a women's restroom.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality	Not Confident
Legally you need to maintain safe distance at stoplights too. You are supposed to have about a car length of space between you, in case you get rear ended or you need to exit that lane in an emergency.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Authority	Somewhat Confident
Mayor McCheese fucked my wife and I want legal compensation.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity,Authority	Somewhat Confident
Holy shit, no, OP should not punish an employee because his wife has paranoid fantasies about her. (And I don't mean to sound unsympathetic to the wife- I'm sure the experience was deeply traumatic and it's understandable that she would be experiencing some deep anxiety. But that is not Layla's fault.)	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
I remember waiting in line at Waldenbooks for about 45 minutes to buy Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire on release day back in 2000.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
Your words are full of pain, I sincerely hope things get better for you. All we can do is live minute by minute and do our best to surround ourselves with people we love.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
I'm happy to hear you've gotten it under control. "Fuck it," is one of the worst places to be.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Somewhat Confident
All my employment contracts have had a clause that says any IP you create on the job belongs to the company, so check your contract carefully before taking this advice	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Authority	Confident
Because it’s all plastic crap that’ll end up in landfills and the enviroment.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
You know, I suppose it really should’ve been on the newspaper to make sure their winners weren’t plagiarizing. At my job, we have filmmakers submit short films for an annual contest, and we have had to call some out for not having the right copyright agreements before. You’d hope you don’t have to worry about that, but people always try it anyway. “No one will notice!” they say.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Authority	Somewhat Confident
It was both tragic and mindblowingly awesome to watch it ha	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
You're not obliged to make racists feel good about themselves. NTA	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality,Equality	Confident
“ I jutht couldn’t help my-thelf... hith little ear jutht looked tho damn thucculent”	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
Yeah it sounds like every time something difficult happens, OP just disappears and leaves his wife to handle things. It sounds like his wife is just frustrated and wants some support.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Loyalty	Confident
Are you my brother? Seriously though if you actually are then fuck you.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Uh hey is it possible that the fact that he has two moms is any part of your family’s feelings about him? The “losing your soul” comment makes very little sense otherwise.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty	Confident
Especially how hard PPD can hit right after giving birth- cause I’m assuming the mom would make OP leave the baby at home with the husband, which would bring huge separation anxiety the whole time she babysat	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Loyalty	Confident
Stupid question, but what do you do if your friends come over? ask them to bring their own utensils?	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
If so, they are probably of lesser quality like the newer pyrex. But they are iconic.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
> ugh, it’s hard. Yeah, of course it is. You're thinking about your MIL. I'll see myself out, thank you.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
Brent Spiner (Data from Star Trek the Next Generation) down in the bottom left corner. Loved this show so much.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
I may be wrong but I don’t believe Muslims drink alcohol.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty	Somewhat Confident
Your ex boyfriend is a nonce, you should report him to the police immediately that is weird AS FUCK	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity	Somewhat Confident
Hate to break it to ya, even if you’re acting sober, the smell of wine and alcohol is basically oozing out of your pores. I’m sure they know. It’s difficult to hide drinking.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity	Somewhat Confident
I mean yea it's something to be upset about, but your willingness to leave a marriage so quickly makes me question if you really believe in the relationship or a life long marriage commitment. I feel it's something you can explain how you are feeling.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty	Confident
I have never seen such an eloquent response to a joke about pooping one’s pants.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
If I were you I’d tell him, it’s up to your boyfriend to decide if he wants to ignore it or confront them and on the off chance the friends opinions weren’t bias he deserves to know.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty	Somewhat Confident
NTA. Idc if I get downvoted. Your not being a brat. All you said was I don’t want any chicken. Anyone who says Y.T.A is a moron	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
2! I can tell by all your 3s that you’re all younger than me.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
That's horrible and sounds like they just want revenge. I feel really badly for their daughter if revenge is the only reason he wants any sort of custody.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty	Confident
I hope things get better eventually. I'm just preying she doesn't have another kid. House is a little crowded lol	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Do you see I put the word "if" in there? I only responded to the other guy who has suspicions about your honesty, I genuinely don't give a shit if you're lying or not, and I definitely don't assume to know anything about anyone on the internet.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty	Somewhat Confident
I wonder if our accounts still exist and they’re still all endlessly on the verge of starving to death	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
My little brother refused to eat unless Face was on. He would be too mesmerized to realize he was eating veggies. We had a recorded VHS that was just Face	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Omg NTA. You were together for like 15 years, and engaged for 3, and they go around and say that you're not a part of the family? They are TA.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty	Confident
Learning that tidbit of information isn't going to make her feel better. All it does is allow OP to not shoulder that burden anymore. Telling her would be selfish as fuck	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Loyalty	Confident
Wtf. He is a big asshole. You should leave him. Dont let him do this with you. Go to the police to get your car back. And leave. He isnt your boss. Thisis not how a relationship schould be. Do you want to do the rest of your life what he want? Imagine how it will be with a child? Imagine he decides everything, where it goes to school, what hobbies it have and dont even ask you. Only let you pay ect...	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty,Authority	Confident
Idk what religion this is, but it's racist lol. Even if it doesn't explicitly say one race is better than the other, enforcing racial purity is racist.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality	Confident
Hey, on the plus side no need to get them a wedding gift.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Not Confident
I used to keep all my personal records in a 5.25" floppy case with lock. Sadly, when I lost the key I found out the hinges on the back were so old and poor, they just snapped apart for easy opening. I finally tossed it in 1998.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
It’s the DA’s job to prove it. It’s her job to provide the evidence of her testimony and injuries.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Authority	Confident
Cold water with salt and human saliva are good at removing blood stains.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Congrats, my friend, props to you for your courage 💖	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Oh my gosh, I was trying to explain to my family that the only reason I tried PB banana sandwiches was The Face! they thought I was crazy! So glad I didn’t imagine that memory. I was probably ~4 years old. And I still love PB banana to this day	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
I’m just saying: she may have been annoying, but she was DJ’s best friend. The adults should have at least faked politeness that wasn’t obviously sarcastic.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty	Somewhat Confident
No, but you can't trust them to stay home or to tell the truth. NTA	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty	Confident
This is the most nostalgic thing I’ve seen today. That dedicated YouTube app was OG.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
NTA, it's your time, do whatever you want. Eventually I think you have to stand up for yourself and not take any of their shit. I personally would tell them the truth and if they don't respect your preferences, you don't have to give them the same respect.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Proportionality	Confident
EXACTLY in what way does trying to stop people from stealing improve your life? It does not.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
Yeah i wouldn’t be surprised if this was made up. Although I’m operating under the assumption that it’s not, because situations like this do indeed happen. Unfortunately you’re right though, this story is inflammatory enough to get a lot of attention and arguments in the comments	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Nah man, trivializing trauma isn‘t about a lack of knowledge, it is about a lack of respect and empathy. That girl didn‘t even try to understand him nor did she show any empathetic reaction at all. She can go fuck herself.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Equality	Confident
This is specifically in reference to your comment. Child free doesn’t automatically mean deal with everything yourself. Your comment is spreading misinformation.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Somewhat Confident
It also makes absolute 100% sense considering evolutionary biology. Hell male Zebras, among other animals, have been known to drown the young of a female in order to take out the competition. I think humans have a tendency to forget we evolved from the same pot some days.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty	Confident
For real. Communication is the most important part of a relationship, so here's some tips on how to deceive your partner and trick them into telling you things you don't want to directly ask about. If you don't go HEY DUDE WHY IS YOUR VAGINA ALL WHACKY but insteaed try a more "honey, I noticed something and was curious about it, it's okay if you don't want to talk about it yet: what's this scar above your vagina from?" approach, chances are she'll be comfortable enough to tell you.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty,Care	Confident
i knew this girl in school who used to pants boys bc she knew they wouldn’t really do anything about it until one dude punched her in the face and knocked her out. he got expelled but no one felt bad for her and she stopped.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality	Somewhat Confident
“My mom said it's okay to talk to lesbians because they take good care of their cats and have a can-do attitude.” -best quote ever	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity	Somewhat Confident
But it can’t be the exes choice because he has nothing to do with them, if OP has no contact with her family then the ex shouldn’t dictate if the children go.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality,Authority	Somewhat Confident
YTA. You’re a spiteful and mean-spirited asshole for treating your grandchildren so differently. Favouritism is cruel and hurtful. Okay, I’m being a judgmental asshat, I mean it’s your money to spend how you like. I just don’t get how someone can switch off love for an innocent grandchild who did no wrong. Did you ever love your granddaughter or did you subconsciously dislike her because of her mum? You said you didn’t want to bond with her. YTA	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality,Loyalty	Confident
Did you not read the post? Do you think every woman has to entertain any man's advances in any situation? What do you think she should have done? If she was polite and interacted with him with no interest she would be a tease. What's better rude bitch or cock tease? Honestly, thankfully women are entertaining creepy behaviour less and less. We are stopping being polite to inappropriate advances. If you are reading this situation as an appropriate advance you are the problem.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality,Care	Somewhat Confident
More like YEStalgia. Man this brings back so many memories. Thank you op	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
Don’t tell your friends and colleagues then. You really don’t have to deal with that kind of potential judgement. Good luck!	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Somewhat Confident
Well sure, that movie wasnt exactly a scientifically planned experiment that can be used for solid conclusions. I dont think its controversial to say that supersizing all your meals isnt a healthy thing to do though...	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Literally just thought of this game yesterday. Oh the memories!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
Don’t forget Mayor McCheese. (Edited to say not sure how anyone could forget a mayor with a cheeseburger for a head.)	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
Your mental illness is also not your partner's responsibility. If you can't take care of yourself, don't date. I've dated people who refused to get help for their issues. Relationships are not about dumping your problems on your partner and expecting them to pick up the pieces. Edit: Mental illness IS permanent. That's the fucking point of seeing therapists, taking meds and handling your illness. There is no cure for depression, anxiety, personality disorders etc. Only management.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality,Loyalty	Confident
I hope Kyle finds this thread and feels supremely vindicated	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
I agree. Pastors and priests are different religions afaik, too.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Authority	Somewhat Confident
You get can get at school, talk to the principal or counselors there, most things are kept confidential.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty,Authority	Somewhat Confident
And now another lobster has to die to satiate OP.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Somewhat Confident
I mean, this is true in some cases for sure.. However, there is something to be said for toxic individuals seeking out vulnerable people.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Somewhat Confident
Agreeing with this, and I can't understand other comments calling her TA. She doesn't come off as entitled or assholey about the whole thing, just genuinely curious to get feedback on her approach. OP I think this is a conversation worth having, given you and bride have been friends for so long. Why weren't you and the other MOHs of invited? It's odd you guys were singled out that way, and deserves some explanation, to you at least.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality,Equality	Somewhat Confident
I am not sure anyone here can help you, since you don’t want help.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality	Somewhat Confident
Creme Savers are going to be the post-apocalyptic American currency mark my words	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
Do NOT, and I cannot stress this enough, move to southern Arizona.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
Hell yeah! I quote his “look what I can do” sometimes	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
Not to be a dick, but ask your fiancée. Explain your worries and ask for clarity.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty	Somewhat Confident
OP’s uncle is verbally abusive, bullying and harassing her and her family daily. Just because they arent being hit doesn’t mean it isn’t abuse. It’s not easy to “just ignore them” when someone is constantly belittling you and aggressively attacking you verbally for YEARS on end	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Equality	Confident
Dude sounds rude and immature fam. Don’t let him make you think you’re crazy. Your problems are not minuscule.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality	Confident
Condoning racism for the other stuff (trade, tax cuts) and thinking of someone's views on race/white supremacy as "not that important" doesn't make you racist yourself? Hm. Edit: You're unintentionally hitting the nail on the head on why moderate liberals are often just as bad as Trump supporters on racism and other -isms and -phobias. You're not as transparent about it, but these issues don't matter to you just the same. If they did, you wouldn't be able to wave them off so easily.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Authority	Somewhat Confident
Theres a special weirdness that comes with not being allowed to see a movie and deciding to spend the evening just driving around instead.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
If he did not tell anyone yet, i'm pretty sure that if you tell him now, he won't tell everyone. I would call him to apologize. You were a child, you realized how much an asshole you were, this cannot harm anymore than what you did before.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality,Care	Somewhat Confident
I'm gonna do this. With all the comments either strongly telling me to apologize, or strongly not to, this seems like a sensible middle ground.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality	Somewhat Confident
lists wildly hypothetical situation that isn’t based in reality whatsoever Not so safe is it?	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
I’ve read those too. They are ok. Mad is better I think	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
You are abusive to him. Periods are not an excuse to mistreat your partner.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Equality	Confident
Your body, your decision. You want BC for your own purposes, then go for it.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality	Confident
Lmmfao HS students know more about genetics and recessive genes than you do. That's just sad...	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Why do you not want people to know this if this is a secret	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
YTA and so is everyone else damn. The poor girl has learned her lesson, it's a fucking pandemic, have some mercy.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident

Jesus Christ, victims of abuse normalize their situation. That doesn't make them worthless.

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I remember having absolutely no idea how to play it.

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Lol what. The post was clearly about the husband and nanny relationship and being unfaithful to OP. Cheating on a spouse doesn’t start with sex, it starts with exactly what OPs husband is doing. Forming a relationship that isn’t acceptable for the situation.

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Isn’t 2038 going to be another “y2k” problem does 32-bit systems?

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What she needs is to be kicked to the curb. Stop showing sympathy to abusers.

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Yes this is really important and maybe explains a lots. I’m so sorry you’re all going through this. Your husbands outlook and behaviour is very bizarre and worrying.

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The claim she has this phony allergy is in fact, an issue about race and xenophobia. You cannot extricate the false claims of MSG "insensitivity" or "allergy" from its xenophobia, ignorance, and racism. Informed people have known this for decades. Scientists have consistently shown that the glutamate in monosodium glutamate is not chemically any different than the same glutamate in tomatoes, cheese, meat, and that which our own bodies produce.

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I just meant like start at the back and work your way to the relevant starting point, instead of starting at the beginning as if it's a novel that needs context.

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Reach out for help man. It’s really hard to walk this path alone. You may feel like you are burdening them, but you’re not. And if there’s no one in your life like that, I’d consider joining AA. This is really something that can take your whole life away. You’re not weak for having this problem, so many brilliant people face this demon. Finding help in others is a sign of strength my friend. I wish nothing but luck on you.

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well now I don't know which of the two of you to believe

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I’ve been studying for the last couple days, I know the content but I wasn’t sure about my nerves the day of the exam. Now I’m not worrying, just worried I’ll get caught lol

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INFO - >I asked my server where she went and she said that she was using the restroom. I was suspicious, so I decided to check the restroom. You haven't mentioned your gender. If you are a male then i wouldn't be comfortable with you peeking into a women's restroom.

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Legally you need to maintain safe distance at stoplights too. You are supposed to have about a car length of space between you, in case you get rear ended or you need to exit that lane in an emergency.

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Mayor McCheese fucked my wife and I want legal compensation.

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Holy shit, no, OP should not punish an employee because his wife has paranoid fantasies about her. (And I don't mean to sound unsympathetic to the wife- I'm sure the experience was deeply traumatic and it's understandable that she would be experiencing some deep anxiety. But that is not Layla's fault.)

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I remember waiting in line at Waldenbooks for about 45 minutes to buy Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire on release day back in 2000.

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Your words are full of pain, I sincerely hope things get better for you. All we can do is live minute by minute and do our best to surround ourselves with people we love.

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I'm happy to hear you've gotten it under control. "Fuck it," is one of the worst places to be.

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All my employment contracts have had a clause that says any IP you create on the job belongs to the company, so check your contract carefully before taking this advice

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Because it’s all plastic crap that’ll end up in landfills and the enviroment.

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You know, I suppose it really should’ve been on the newspaper to make sure their winners weren’t plagiarizing. At my job, we have filmmakers submit short films for an annual contest, and we have had to call some out for not having the right copyright agreements before. You’d hope you don’t have to worry about that, but people always try it anyway. “No one will notice!” they say.

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It was both tragic and mindblowingly awesome to watch it ha

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You're not obliged to make racists feel good about themselves. NTA

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“ I jutht couldn’t help my-thelf... hith little ear jutht looked tho damn thucculent”

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Yeah it sounds like every time something difficult happens, OP just disappears and leaves his wife to handle things. It sounds like his wife is just frustrated and wants some support.

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Are you my brother? Seriously though if you actually are then fuck you.

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Uh hey is it possible that the fact that he has two moms is any part of your family’s feelings about him? The “losing your soul” comment makes very little sense otherwise.

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Especially how hard PPD can hit right after giving birth- cause I’m assuming the mom would make OP leave the baby at home with the husband, which would bring huge separation anxiety the whole time she babysat

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Stupid question, but what do you do if your friends come over? ask them to bring their own utensils?

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If so, they are probably of lesser quality like the newer pyrex. But they are iconic.

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> ugh, it’s hard. Yeah, of course it is. You're thinking about your MIL. I'll see myself out, thank you.

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Brent Spiner (Data from Star Trek the Next Generation) down in the bottom left corner. Loved this show so much.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

I may be wrong but I don’t believe Muslims drink alcohol.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Loyalty

Somewhat Confident

Your ex boyfriend is a nonce, you should report him to the police immediately that is weird AS FUCK

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Purity

Somewhat Confident

Hate to break it to ya, even if you’re acting sober, the smell of wine and alcohol is basically oozing out of your pores. I’m sure they know. It’s difficult to hide drinking.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Purity

Somewhat Confident

I mean yea it's something to be upset about, but your willingness to leave a marriage so quickly makes me question if you really believe in the relationship or a life long marriage commitment. I feel it's something you can explain how you are feeling.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Loyalty

Confident

I have never seen such an eloquent response to a joke about pooping one’s pants.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

If I were you I’d tell him, it’s up to your boyfriend to decide if he wants to ignore it or confront them and on the off chance the friends opinions weren’t bias he deserves to know.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Loyalty

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NTA. Idc if I get downvoted. Your not being a brat. All you said was I don’t want any chicken. Anyone who says Y.T.A is a moron

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

2! I can tell by all your 3s that you’re all younger than me.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

That's horrible and sounds like they just want revenge. I feel really badly for their daughter if revenge is the only reason he wants any sort of custody.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Loyalty

Confident

I hope things get better eventually. I'm just preying she doesn't have another kid. House is a little crowded lol

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

Do you see I put the word "if" in there? I only responded to the other guy who has suspicions about your honesty, I genuinely don't give a shit if you're lying or not, and I definitely don't assume to know anything about anyone on the internet.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Loyalty

Somewhat Confident

I wonder if our accounts still exist and they’re still all endlessly on the verge of starving to death

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Somewhat Confident

My little brother refused to eat unless Face was on. He would be too mesmerized to realize he was eating veggies. We had a recorded VHS that was just Face

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

Omg NTA. You were together for like 15 years, and engaged for 3, and they go around and say that you're not a part of the family? They are TA.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Loyalty

Confident

Learning that tidbit of information isn't going to make her feel better. All it does is allow OP to not shoulder that burden anymore. Telling her would be selfish as fuck

confession

Everyday Morality

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Care,Loyalty

Confident

Wtf. He is a big asshole. You should leave him. Dont let him do this with you. Go to the police to get your car back. And leave. He isnt your boss. Thisis not how a relationship schould be. Do you want to do the rest of your life what he want? Imagine how it will be with a child? Imagine he decides everything, where it goes to school, what hobbies it have and dont even ask you. Only let you pay ect...

relationship_advice

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Loyalty,Authority

Confident

Idk what religion this is, but it's racist lol. Even if it doesn't explicitly say one race is better than the other, enforcing racial purity is racist.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Equality

Confident

Hey, on the plus side no need to get them a wedding gift.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Not Confident

I used to keep all my personal records in a 5.25" floppy case with lock. Sadly, when I lost the key I found out the hinges on the back were so old and poor, they just snapped apart for easy opening. I finally tossed it in 1998.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

It’s the DA’s job to prove it. It’s her job to provide the evidence of her testimony and injuries.

relationship_advice

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Authority

Confident

Cold water with salt and human saliva are good at removing blood stains.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

Congrats, my friend, props to you for your courage 💖

confession

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

Oh my gosh, I was trying to explain to my family that the only reason I tried PB banana sandwiches was The Face! they thought I was crazy! So glad I didn’t imagine that memory. I was probably ~4 years old. And I still love PB banana to this day

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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I’m just saying: she may have been annoying, but she was DJ’s best friend. The adults should have at least faked politeness that wasn’t obviously sarcastic.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Loyalty

Somewhat Confident

No, but you can't trust them to stay home or to tell the truth. NTA

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Loyalty

Confident

This is the most nostalgic thing I’ve seen today. That dedicated YouTube app was OG.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Somewhat Confident

NTA, it's your time, do whatever you want. Eventually I think you have to stand up for yourself and not take any of their shit. I personally would tell them the truth and if they don't respect your preferences, you don't have to give them the same respect.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Care,Proportionality

Confident

EXACTLY in what way does trying to stop people from stealing improve your life? It does not.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Somewhat Confident

Yeah i wouldn’t be surprised if this was made up. Although I’m operating under the assumption that it’s not, because situations like this do indeed happen. Unfortunately you’re right though, this story is inflammatory enough to get a lot of attention and arguments in the comments

relationship_advice

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Nah man, trivializing trauma isn‘t about a lack of knowledge, it is about a lack of respect and empathy. That girl didn‘t even try to understand him nor did she show any empathetic reaction at all. She can go fuck herself.

relationship_advice

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Care,Equality

Confident

This is specifically in reference to your comment. Child free doesn’t automatically mean deal with everything yourself. Your comment is spreading misinformation.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Care

Somewhat Confident

It also makes absolute 100% sense considering evolutionary biology. Hell male Zebras, among other animals, have been known to drown the young of a female in order to take out the competition. I think humans have a tendency to forget we evolved from the same pot some days.

relationship_advice

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For real. Communication is the most important part of a relationship, so here's some tips on how to deceive your partner and trick them into telling you things you don't want to directly ask about. If you don't go HEY DUDE WHY IS YOUR VAGINA ALL WHACKY but insteaed try a more "honey, I noticed something and was curious about it, it's okay if you don't want to talk about it yet: what's this scar above your vagina from?" approach, chances are she'll be comfortable enough to tell you.

relationship_advice

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Loyalty,Care

Confident

i knew this girl in school who used to pants boys bc she knew they wouldn’t really do anything about it until one dude punched her in the face and knocked her out. he got expelled but no one felt bad for her and she stopped.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality

Somewhat Confident

“My mom said it's okay to talk to lesbians because they take good care of their cats and have a can-do attitude.” -best quote ever

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Purity

Somewhat Confident

But it can’t be the exes choice because he has nothing to do with them, if OP has no contact with her family then the ex shouldn’t dictate if the children go.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Equality,Authority

Somewhat Confident

YTA. You’re a spiteful and mean-spirited asshole for treating your grandchildren so differently. Favouritism is cruel and hurtful. Okay, I’m being a judgmental asshat, I mean it’s your money to spend how you like. I just don’t get how someone can switch off love for an innocent grandchild who did no wrong. Did you ever love your granddaughter or did you subconsciously dislike her because of her mum? You said you didn’t want to bond with her. YTA

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Equality,Loyalty

Confident

Did you not read the post? Do you think every woman has to entertain any man's advances in any situation? What do you think she should have done? If she was polite and interacted with him with no interest she would be a tease. What's better rude bitch or cock tease? Honestly, thankfully women are entertaining creepy behaviour less and less. We are stopping being polite to inappropriate advances. If you are reading this situation as an appropriate advance you are the problem.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Care

Somewhat Confident

More like YEStalgia. Man this brings back so many memories. Thank you op

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Somewhat Confident

Don’t tell your friends and colleagues then. You really don’t have to deal with that kind of potential judgement. Good luck!

confession

Everyday Morality

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Care

Somewhat Confident

Well sure, that movie wasnt exactly a scientifically planned experiment that can be used for solid conclusions. I dont think its controversial to say that supersizing all your meals isnt a healthy thing to do though...

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

Literally just thought of this game yesterday. Oh the memories!

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

Don’t forget Mayor McCheese. (Edited to say not sure how anyone could forget a mayor with a cheeseburger for a head.)

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

Your mental illness is also not your partner's responsibility. If you can't take care of yourself, don't date. I've dated people who refused to get help for their issues. Relationships are not about dumping your problems on your partner and expecting them to pick up the pieces. Edit: Mental illness IS permanent. That's the fucking point of seeing therapists, taking meds and handling your illness. There is no cure for depression, anxiety, personality disorders etc. Only management.

relationship_advice

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Proportionality,Loyalty

Confident

I hope Kyle finds this thread and feels supremely vindicated

AmItheAsshole

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Thin Morality

Confident

I agree. Pastors and priests are different religions afaik, too.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Authority

Somewhat Confident

You get can get at school, talk to the principal or counselors there, most things are kept confidential.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Loyalty,Authority

Somewhat Confident

And now another lobster has to die to satiate OP.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Care

Somewhat Confident

I mean, this is true in some cases for sure.. However, there is something to be said for toxic individuals seeking out vulnerable people.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Care

Somewhat Confident

Agreeing with this, and I can't understand other comments calling her TA. She doesn't come off as entitled or assholey about the whole thing, just genuinely curious to get feedback on her approach. OP I think this is a conversation worth having, given you and bride have been friends for so long. Why weren't you and the other MOHs of invited? It's odd you guys were singled out that way, and deserves some explanation, to you at least.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Equality

Somewhat Confident

I am not sure anyone here can help you, since you don’t want help.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality

Somewhat Confident

Creme Savers are going to be the post-apocalyptic American currency mark my words

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Somewhat Confident

Do NOT, and I cannot stress this enough, move to southern Arizona.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

Hell yeah! I quote his “look what I can do” sometimes

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

Not to be a dick, but ask your fiancée. Explain your worries and ask for clarity.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Loyalty

Somewhat Confident

OP’s uncle is verbally abusive, bullying and harassing her and her family daily. Just because they arent being hit doesn’t mean it isn’t abuse. It’s not easy to “just ignore them” when someone is constantly belittling you and aggressively attacking you verbally for YEARS on end

confession

Everyday Morality

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Dude sounds rude and immature fam. Don’t let him make you think you’re crazy. Your problems are not minuscule.

relationship_advice

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Condoning racism for the other stuff (trade, tax cuts) and thinking of someone's views on race/white supremacy as "not that important" doesn't make you racist yourself? Hm. Edit: You're unintentionally hitting the nail on the head on why moderate liberals are often just as bad as Trump supporters on racism and other -isms and -phobias. You're not as transparent about it, but these issues don't matter to you just the same. If they did, you wouldn't be able to wave them off so easily.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Authority

Somewhat Confident

Theres a special weirdness that comes with not being allowed to see a movie and deciding to spend the evening just driving around instead.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

If he did not tell anyone yet, i'm pretty sure that if you tell him now, he won't tell everyone. I would call him to apologize. You were a child, you realized how much an asshole you were, this cannot harm anymore than what you did before.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Care

Somewhat Confident

I'm gonna do this. With all the comments either strongly telling me to apologize, or strongly not to, this seems like a sensible middle ground.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality

Somewhat Confident

*lists wildly hypothetical situation that isn’t based in reality whatsoever* Not so safe is it?

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

I’ve read those too. They are ok. Mad is better I think

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

You are abusive to him. Periods are not an excuse to mistreat your partner.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Care,Equality

Confident

Your body, your decision. You want BC for your own purposes, then go for it.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Equality

Confident

Lmmfao HS students know more about genetics and recessive genes than you do. That's just sad...

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

Why do you not want people to know this if this is a secret

confession

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

YTA and so is everyone else damn. The poor girl has learned her lesson, it's a fucking pandemic, have some mercy.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Care

Confident